Frequently asked questions

Will I have to do anything?
Surely not! You’ll only do what you like and prefer, in the utmost respect for everyone. Yet we suggest you to come with some ideas about what you’d like to do, so you won’t waste your time playing wallpaper.

Will I be photographed or recorded?
Absolutely not. Nobody has any reason to, and the law is very clear about your privacy rights. If you like showing off, there is a closed photoset where you can have your portrait taken by a professional photographer. You can also ask the staff to take your picture whenever you prefer, so you’ll have a souvenir of the event.

If I come alone, will I find a partner?
This is up to you. If you’ll be well-mannered and interesting, the chances are more than enough…

If I come as a single female, will I be besieged by single guys?
The organization does its best to keep a well-balanced attendance, and the ambiance is usually very respectful. If you say “no” it’s no… and those who can’t understand will be booted out.

Will I find someone to practice bondage with?
Anyone into erotic restraints comes to Bondage Party Milano… except those who stay home waiting for others to go ahead and build a group! The best way to be sure of meeting the kind of person you like the best is to invite them to come along to the party.

I never tried bondage. How can I start?
Here! At the party you’ll find many persons who’ll be glad to help you and answer your questions. In the meantime, if you want to learn something you can have a look at Ayzad‘s website, or turn to the courses held by Davide La Greca. 

Will I be able to practice other BDSM games?
Of course, provided you understand that bondage will be given priority in the use of the available spaces.

Is this a swingers’ event?
No. Although you are free to set up group games or swap your partner, Bondage Party Milano is a chance to play with kink. For “vanilla” sex there are so many other occasions…

So it’s no sex at all, then?
Let’s put it this way: you can also have sex, but within a kinky context and in any case respecting other guests, who’ll probably want to use the place to do other things. If you really have the irresistible urge to fuck, the club provides a great private area just for this purpose.

Are there prostitutes there?
The club does not tolerate prostitution. Anyone practicing it during the party will be booted out permanently.

So what are those prodommes doing among the guests?
The very same things everyone else does. They visit Bondage Party Milano to enjoy bondage and meet friends old and new. Every guest is treated the same, and is required to respect the same rules.

Will I find drugs inside?
Absolutely not. Besides them being illegal, to keep one’s mind clear is essential to safely play with extreme eroticism.

Why are you holding it on a Sunday afternoon?
In part this is because the club hosts different events at other times; in part because this makes it possible for the guests to participate even if they come from afar, and they have to be at work early on the morning after.

Why is the membership card more expensive than elsewhere?
The slightly higher cost allows the club to offer free cloakroom service, and to keep the bar prices lower than average, including free water, coffee and snacks, differently from other clubs.
Also, remember that you can use any ARCO card, even if you got it from a different circle or club – even if in this case some services may be charged extra.